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Mommy and Daddy Time

Thursday, February 28th, 2008

There will come a time that your toddler may see you and your wife making love. A lot of things like this happen once in a while so just do not break down. If your child suddenly shows up on your doorstep because she heard some noise and then suddenly saw you and your wife, just simply lead her back to her room and tuck her into bed. Say sorry for putting the TV too loud. In the morning, they would probably forget everything about it. But if in case they do ask, just tell them that you were just having a mommy and daddy time. She does not need any further explanation yet regarding sex. Let it wait until she is ready to understand it.

Weekend Job

Friday, February 22nd, 2008

To some mothers, it is absolutely fine to get a weekend job because by that time, their husbands can take care of their kids but the problem is, they may end up missing the family time. There are a couple of ways to try to establish a strong bond or connection with the family even if you are working on a weekend.

1. Try to enjoy at the very least one meal every day. Be there for 1 meal each day and enjoy laughter and great story telling from everyone. If you can’t make it to dinner, then you can at least bring home an after dinner treat for everyone.

2. Stay up late. Try to stay up late and bond with your husband. This will help you reconnect and get in touch with a couple of things that matter for the family. Remember that connection and communication is needed for a healthy family life.

3. Set an activity on one weeknight. Most likely everyone is at home on a weeknight so make it a point that you enjoy a couple of games or movies together. Bonding does not necessarily mean going out and have fun. You can stay at home and simply play board games.

Stop Whining

Thursday, February 21st, 2008

Whining is a usual problem that parents would encounter if ever their toddler do not get what they really want in due time. This happens most of the time when they want a toy but you do not have a budget to buy one yet or simply eat but it is not yet time to eat. Most kids do not even know that they are whining until such time that they notice that every one is staring at them and views them with scrutiny.

There are a couple of workarounds  to overcome this kind of problem.  Try  to record the voice of your child every time he or she whines and then make them listen to it. Make them see how irritating it sounds and try to laugh with them about it. This will make them realize that whining is not good. Teach them to be patient as well. As most people would say, patience is a virtue and opportunity comes to those who wait. It may be hard to explain this to a child but you have to make it a point that they understand it. If they do understand it, then most likely whining will stop sooner or later.

The Pain of Rejection

Wednesday, February 20th, 2008

Rejection is something that is really hard to deal with. No age is exempted from this one but the problem lies on the fact that kids take rejection far more seriously than mature individuals. It affects their entire personality for several weeks or even months. If your kid is having problems after being rejected, then you have to do your best to help him get over it. Here are a few tips:

1. Be there for him. Don’t show him how sad you are after he got rejected. It will only give him the notion that he let you down.

2. Find out what’s bothering him. If his friends who did not get rejected is his problem then find ways to get them together and have a good time.

3. Share your rejections. Tell him stories of the time that you got rejected before and how you managed to get back on track. This will help him realize that he can also do it. This will help him boost his morale and get over the rejection that he had.

Saying Thank You

Tuesday, February 19th, 2008

A kid is often too tired of being excited in playing with the new toy before he can possibly say "thanks for buying this for me." Teaching the child to give gratitude is not too hard to accomplish. It simply allows the child to become more sociable and gain more friends. A parent must bear in mind that they should set a good example to their children especially when it comes to saying thank you. If you ask them to pick something up, make it fun by posting thank you notes all over their room and be sure that you thank them for what they did. In writing their first letter, you have to guide them and tell them to say thanks to the people who showed a random act of kindness to them.

Writing skills and socializing skills will be sharpened when ou encourage your child to do this act. It is simple, fun and very rewarding.

Rash Attack!

Tuesday, February 19th, 2008

If you notice that your baby has several red bumpy spots in his bottom, then most likely he is experiencing a diaper rash. This spreads if it is not treated accordingly and may look scalely and very painful. There are a lot reasons that trigger this type of attacks. Reasons are: antibiotic use, dirty diapers, oral thrush and immune deficiencies.

Its a good thing that yeast diaper rashes are fairly easy to cure. An over - the - counter antifungal cream can do the job. If it does not work, then you may consult your doctor for other medications. Also, rashes may be the cause of an allergy on food and it is best if you try to consult the help of your doctor first before taking any steps in cutting down the food that your baby eat.

The “Mine” Attitude

Monday, February 18th, 2008

Although only a few babies encounter this, it is a good to know information for parents that babies tend to consider things as their own even if it is not. It may get a little out of hand and irritate several people. It will definitely look like theft in the eyes of others but to your child its just a mere act of getting what he considers is his own.

To get around this problem, you must be able to show your child the things that is totally his own and the things that are not his property. There must be a border around things and you must set the rules. Explain it in simple words and punish him if needed. Try to say, "NO. That is not yours" in a firm tone and impose the rules strictly. For sure, he will be crying but it is better to impose it as early as today rather than have problems with him in the near future. Your child may not notice it yet but he may turn out to be a kleptomaniac if this attitude is not fixed early.

Granny Day Care

Monday, February 18th, 2008

There will come a time that granny can take care of your baby. As they always say, a realtive’s touch is better than any other caregiver because it includes a lot of passion and love. But, there are a few things that they have to bear in mind too aside from simply showing love to their grandchildren.

For one thing, if you can afford doing paying them then try giving them some money to compensate for what they have done for your child. Also, just because they are your relatives, it doesnt follow that they should impost thier will against you. If this happens, then you might as well impose the physician’s rule. Something like, "Dr. Smith said she should drink this at 3am after her nap."

Having granny to take care of your child is a great idea for a good family bonding and also so that they would not be too bored.

Bedtime

Friday, February 15th, 2008

There are times that your child cannot go to bed or does not have a regular time to enjoy sleep. This results to restless nights and countless crying at night. There are a couple of things that you could do to help your child have a good night sleep.

You should set up a routine that your child must follow. Make sure that you follow this routine as well. Try going to bed at the same time everyday. This will adjust his body clock and he will soon be falling asleep every day at this time. Do calming activities before sleeping. It may be singing a lullaby or reading a bedtime story. This will help your child relax and get a wonderful shut eye. It is also good to end the day in a good mood so as to prevent bad dreams. Just follow this simple things and soon you and your child will have a peaceful and quiet sleep.

Adoption

Friday, February 15th, 2008

Some couple who could not have a child of their own will opt to go to their local welfare department and adopt a child. This is not bad if they can handle the task of taking care of a child that happens to be not their own.

Step parents, as they usually call them, should take the initiative to give the child proper care, guidance, love and education as they grow older. If they become emotionally stable, it is proper for them to disclose the fact that they are adopted. Key point here is that they should be able to take care of the child and make them grow into better individuals who will someday help the society.

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